I don't like this guy at all, like as a boyfriend. But, everytime he talks to me i just wanna get with him and do stuff. So like I told him i don't like him and he's like let's be friends with benefits. So i kind of want to, but i'm going out with the most amazing girl. If i love this girl, why do I always want to get with him?
& are you like bisexual? because you are saying you are dating a girl, but want to do stuff with a guy, so i'm sort of confused?
but it's normal to want to have sexual relations with someone other than your significant other, but remember it is cheating to do anything behind your girlfriend's back. [ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question ]
cutiekate777 answered Sunday November 19 2006, 11:55 am: You're just physically attracted to this guy. Things like that happen sometimes. You can't control your hormones. However, you can control what you do. If you're already in a relationship, I wouldn't do anything physical with this guy. Realistically, you might not always be with this girl, and you might still want to get with this guy later But in the here and now, if you love your girlfriend that much, tell this guy that. Tell him you don't want to be friends with benefits, and save sex (or in this case even whatever else you intend to do) for the one you love. [ cutiekate777's advice column | Ask cutiekate777 A Question ]
rick505 answered Sunday November 19 2006, 7:09 am: save sex for someone your in love with it is better for you and them. Being atracted to someone is just the hormones in your body telling you this person meets the requirement for breeding. Unless your are looking to breed you should probably suppress these feelings most of the time. [ rick505's advice column | Ask rick505 A Question ]
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