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Shy Boyfriend
My boyfriend is really shy, how do I hint to him that I want to make out with him without coming on too strong? please help because I really want to make out with him.. but I dont know how to approach it..
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well obviously your boyfriend is shy and you know how girls get when they dont want to be pushed into stuff lke head and sex we get all emotional well do the sam for him dont push him itno it then he'd think your like some kind of sex horny freak so you jest go with the flow and lead him to the point like get on his lap by ur chest facing his chest and start kissing him if he goes along with it then your in luck.
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I don't know your real age, so I can't advise you appropriately. Let him know by verbally telling him, and then he will not be confused. If you are too shy to tell him what you want to do, then you are not mature enough to actually do it. Take it slow and enjoy it, rushing does NOT make anything better. Appreciate some romantic time together and be clear about your desires by talking to him.
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i have a freind that used to date a guy like that. none of us thought that he actually liked her cause shes really flirtacious and will make out with any guy(pretty much). well it ended up that he really did like her but he didn't know ow to make the first move so she did. in other words if you really want to make out for him and you know that he likes you then just make the first move.
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Well, the only advice I can give you is: just do it! (Almost) all boys want to make out, but some of us don't dare to take the first step. Try to be alone with him, and don't rush into it. Start out with some cuddling, kissing him on the cheek. Then just a peck on the lips. Next time you kis him on the lips, keep your mouth on his a bit longer, gently open up your lips. By now he should get the idea, but if he doesn't, lick his lips a little bit with your tongue. If he still doesn't open his mouth you might want to tell him to, or asl him if he doesn't want to make out. Don't get mad or act rejected or anything, he might not understand (guys really are stupid, half the time we don't get why girls feel rejected or insulted). Maybe he's not ready for it, so go easy on him if he doesn't want it (yet!).
Also note that I am a guy and not experienced with seducing guys. I just tried to imagine what I'd want a girl to do if I were too shy to make out with her.
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Maybe a romantic date or something. You can always have him come over to your house or something, watch a movie.. and turn the lights off?
You can kiss him a couple of times. But don't rush him, if he doesn't feel comfortable.
Maybe he wouldn't be shy if you made the first move. That's one thing guys worry about. Whether he has to make the first move or would you.
Just try to set the mood for him. If he doesn't do anything, he's probably uncomfortable and nervous.
Just start off kissing him a couple of times. He might take it by surprise the first time.
You can always talk to him about it.
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