hes so nice to me in school & stuff & he always makes me laughs.
but other times when hes with his friends & stuff hes different. he acts like he hates me.
i told him i used to like him but im still hooked on him....
the thing is that hes so sweet when hes not with his friends that thats the side im in love with.
hes a goofball so talking seriously is not gonna work..pleez help
~EAS<3
P.S. i went to a dance last weekend & he was there. i dont brag but i looked really hot. hes acted different since he saw me there. we didnt even dance but i dont know....maybe hes starting to like me?? idk! HELP!!! ASAP
Iamunity answered Saturday November 18 2006, 2:51 am: It is obvious that this guy really needs to decide what he wants . It is more obvious that maybe you should look to brighter horizons. When you are young I suppose it it o.k. to dwell on situations like this but, in all reality you shouldn't. Believe me I have been in your situation and I know that it is no fun. Guys play with your emotions when they try to play two different games at the same time. They never realize just how much it hurts. Number one, don't give him the pleasure of knowing how much you like him. That only gives him more leeway to run you in circles. Number two, don't make yourself so readily available.If he is only nice when you are alone what does that say? Is he ashamed of you?If so, he is a loser and you don't need him to start with. I know this it is hard to stay away from someone you really like but unless he starts taking his own initatives to get next to you do away with him.
baphomet66 answered Saturday November 18 2006, 1:33 am: all right. as a guy, i can tell you this. Sometimes, guys will act different around ladies and different around guys. When they are with guys, the whole "macho" things and "ego" rears its ugly head. The will act like they arer indifferent when they are with guys to "fit in".
When a guy is alone with a lady, he will be different in that he will be a nice caring guy. Hopefully, that isn't just a facade and the real him is the macho jerk, but what you said it seems that he is a genuinely nice fella. hope that this helps out and good luck. [ baphomet66's advice column | Ask baphomet66 A Question ]
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