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should i tell her?
ok, my lifes pretty complicated. I really love this girl but i don't think she could ever feel the same way about me. Were friends and I've asked her out once before and she said no but i still really like her. We did'nt talk for a while and now were friends again but my feelings are just eating me up inside. I think shes fancies my friend but im not sure. I've tried gettin into the same stuff as her and had the same interests but she doesnt seem to notice. I really want to tell her and even though she wont feel she the same way at least I've got off my chest. But if i do that we wont be friends for ages. Is she really worth it? should i tell her?
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Sounds like you already know the answer to that plan, so think of another plan. Also, think about the fact that some guys just love the challenge and once they get the girl, they lose interest. Could that be part of the adreniline rush? If you have not gotten her attention yet by doing friend/same interests stuff, then get her attention with something new. Try dating other people. I am not talking serious relationships or using someone to make her jealous, but it may get her attention to see you as someone other than her gal pal. She needs to see you as a potential boyfriend, a hot guy! Girls are attracted to a guy for a lot more than looks, so whether or not you look like a rock star, carry yourself with a confident attitude and try a new attitude. Is she attracted to a certain type of guy? Pay attention to what gets her going, and you can bring a little of that to your own charismatic personality. If you are too available and already made it known that you are too easy to get, then she will continue to take that for granted. Keep in touch with her, but not every second, there are literally thousands of girls around you, so start looking!
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