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ehh this one boy..
ok. well me and this guy have been "together" for about 6 or 7 months now. and were like on and off "together" i guess you could say.. and like we have both gone off and have seen other people but we always end up coming back to each other because the other people just dont compare...as we say. and he told me he doesnt see himself dating me so i basically have no chance is what is he saying right? but hes always so sweet to me, and we have these nights. on fridays, where we just every friday were together and hang out all day from after school until like curfew and its amazing cause we are like a couple, but then we get to school and hes the total opposite, he'll ignore me and will just sit there and stare at me. but then theres days like today for example, when he saw me in the morning he like picked me up and like almost kissed me ya know. and everything and then looked at his friends and put me down and walked away. its like hes embarassed to talk to me in front of his friens, even though all his friends like me and talk to me and ugh. i know he knows that i like him alot, and i know he knows that i know that he still likes me, even though hes said that hes liked 2 other girls and were seeing where it was going with them, but still came back to me and i was just sitting there waiting for him. how can i say to him, that even though hes been with two other girls, and just because he doesnt see himself dating me, that we can still give it a try? or what do i say to him to make him realize that i am the girl for him? i dont know what to do with this situation. i love the boy to death, and i cant move on no matter how hard i try, yet.. thats all i want to do. but i still want to date him and be with him... im 15/f if that helps.. and the guys is 18..
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Okay. It sounds a little bit like he is playing with you. Remember that you're not a toy! You're a human being. The best thing you can do is talk to him and ask him to explain his behavior. It can only get better from here, even if you two fall apart it's better than staying his girl-toy. Tell him you love him, if that wont work nothing will. You do desever way better than to be treated like this, even if you feel like you want to put up with it just to be with him. Retain your selfrespect, he should either completely go for you or leave you be.
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