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did I sound odd?


Question Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 5:41 pm

Well I finally got the strength to call this guy who I like. He likes me to and might ask me out. Well its hard to talk to him in person, phone is a little bit better, but I feel we best talk to each other on instant messenger. Well he gave me his number, and I haven't really called him, but he told me I could call him any time. So I called him today, and it went pretty good. We talked for about 10 minutes or a bit longer. I think it went good. But I'm afriad I said some really corny things and laughed weird and said something that he might have taken wrong. Well we're going to the dance together and I was telling him how everyone was freaking out about the dance, so I said I freaked out about it a small way, then I said I was just stressed. Did this sound like I didn't want to go, becasue I do. He said he was happy we're going together, and I told him I was happy too. I'm very excited about it, I just don't want him taking that the wrong way. Also, usually after we always talk on instant message and on phone, he'll say, great talking to you, but he didn't. When I told him that I had to go, he just, alright talk to you later. I'm really getting worked up about this. Do you think I'm overreacting? And was that a bad thing to say to him about me freaking out, the only reason why I said that was because he hasn't said that he bought my ticket or anything or asked what color my dress is for his tie or my flower thing that goes around your wrist (sorry I forget the name) I just don't know. Thanks!

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karenR answered Thursday November 16 2006, 6:18 pm:
It sounds to me as if it went well! Yippee! :)

Until you really get to know someone, talking in person can make you a little nervous. I'm gonna guess he is probably thinking the very same things you are! Boys aren't all that different. He is probably sitting there thinking to himself, "I forgot to tell her it was nice talking to her!"

It sounds to me as if he likes you. Sounds like a very nice, polite guy. He said he would talk to you later and I am sure he will. If you feel like it, give him another call. The more you talk before the dance, the easier it will be to talk at the dance.

I don't think it was bad you telling him you were freaking out a little. You're nervous and excited all at the same time. He probably is too. He may not know exactly what hes supposed to do either.

Next time you talk to him you can ask him if hes got your tickets yet in a casual way. Tell him how excited, yet nervous you are. Might make him feel better to know you are nervous too. Give you something else to talk too!

Some guys don't know about corsages. Hope he gets you one though. He may get you something white that goes with almost anything too.

Sounds like you found a nice guy. Hope he is a wonderful date!

Let me know how it goes. This dance has to be coming up soon. Can't wait to hear what a great
time you had! :)

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