Question Posted Wednesday November 15 2006, 8:30 pm
16/f
So I went out with this guy for two weeks last may but he's been in love with me since we were in 8th grade, possibly even 7th.
He makes it clear he likes me and even though we broke up in may he called me baby and told me he loved me every night until October.
Then in october he asked this other girl to homecoming and then he asked her out.
My problem is that I'm still in love with him and it's clear he likes me. He sometimes still tells me he loves me and flirts with me all the time.
I have no idea what to do
I really want to have another chance with him but I also don't want to hurt the girl he's going out with now because she's so adorable and innocent.
Do I stand by and watch him leave me and love her or do I tell him how I feel?
Did you ever let him know that you're in love with him as well? If he really loves you and knows you love him, they'll break up eventually. You might as well speed up the process, because the longer their relationship lasts, the more hurt she will be (if she really loves him that is). I know that sounds like a bad thing to do, it's the rational thing to do. Of course you should do what you're most comfortable with. [ Raeden's advice column | Ask Raeden A Question ]
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