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lets call him mark </3
well i went over my boyfriends house last night, lets call him mark. we were just hanging out. it seemed like we were only friends. he wanted to like makeout and do stuff, but it just didnt feel right. i mean i like him and all but i dont know. anyways well since we werent doing anything boyfriend/girlfreind like, he decides to mess around with his ipod, go on myspace, and talk on the phone at the same time. i was just like sitting there on his bedd just listening to him. he didnt even say anything to be for a straight 30 minutes. well anywayss i used some excuse to why we werent doing anything girlfriend/boyfriend like. the reason i did that is because i didint want to break up with him, cause like i said i still do like him. when it was time for me to leave he kissed me and said okay bye baby i love you, but dont be like dead the next time you come over here. so he calls me that night and i was like dont tell mariah that. [ mariah is the girl i used for an excuse that was making me dead ]. he was like okay i wont if you give me head. it seems like he only wants me for the sexual stuff. cause when i wasnt doing taht he was doing all the other things and was like dont be dead again. what do you guys think?
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heyy..I know this is gonna sound like bad advice, because I'm sure you really like him and ev erything but forget him! i'm sure yours a great girl who could find a guy who loves you for you..not for what you could do for him. It's not worth it..especially if it doesn't feel right...Listen to your gut instinct, it tends to lead you in the right direction..i promise!
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I'm a little confused on what your direct question is, but I'll tell you what I think:
-"Mark" is quite the dumbass
-break up with him
Sorry, I don't mean to be a bitch about this, but I think I would say it's time to let go of him. It sounds to me like you're just not comfortable with the moves he's trying to make, and it also sounds like that's all he wants you for. I would move on, because someone like that is just not worth doing anything with in a relationship. And my main advice: don't give in to him AT ALL just because you think he'll love you more, because you think you love him or to make the relationship better, because it won't work. He was cleary implying sex, and if that's all a guy wanted from me, he could kiss his sorry ass goodbye. So, that's just my opinion, and please, don't take this as offensive; I don't mean to be rude to you or to Mark, but, I'm just telling you to use your intuition, and to use it wisely.
Good Luck!
Jess♥
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