this is so weird. ive been with my bf 4-5 months [officially 4 but weve been "together" about 5 probably]. anyway, hes the best thing thats ever happened to me and i honestly dont want to lose him... however sometimes i feel like i wanna tell him that we should break up. its weird, because i dont actually want to break up with him, i just want to say it. whats that about??? 16/f.
AdviceMistress answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 1:32 pm: it might be that you feel that you have committment issues or that you feel that you are settling down with one guy and there are a lot more fish in the sea. if you feel this is getting to you then i would take a break and find out what is that something that you need.. or want. maybe talk to your bf and tell him whats going on. good luck and i hope everything works out.
xldywing answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 2:18 am: i've had this feeling before, and i know exactly how you feel about the whole not wanting to break up with him, but wanting to say it. for me, personally, it was because it didn't seem like he cared much about me anymore, or the little things he said that he "thinks" means nothing, really did mean something.. BIG. and it got on my nerves, to say the least.
are there little things about him that bug you? pet peeves maybe? if you don't want to break up with him, you probably don't. but you'll know when the time is right. so don't think too much about it, have fun together! best wishes to the two of you! (: [ xldywing's advice column | Ask xldywing A Question ]
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