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My Best Friends Boyfriend is my New Best Friend w/Benefits
I want my best friends boyfriend. . . *SOB* at first we started out as just really good friends and we would play around. Innocently. We would be around my Best Friend of 11 years and cute little flirt around. He would jokingly hug me in front of her and play pucker up and tell me he loves me cuz she's mean. And we all would laugh and joke about it. Then, we started getting a bit closer, when he would play, he would mess around and get closer than we both know she would like, if she even noticed. She never does. That was fine but it's getting worse, way worse, and I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO! Because, I don't really want him to stop, but I need him too. Kinda.. . . And he skips steps, we nevcer kiss, but we have gotten close and I run away, but I WANT IT! even though i can't, & i know I can't. . . and I won't. But instead of kissing he's cut straight to, um. . . The rest of the stuff. Not "" you know, but he's been down and up a couple of times, ALWAYS in a crowd, and he gets a kick outta doing it infront of her. . . It nearly kills me, everytime, but there is a sort of satisfying adrenaline (Sorry About My Spelling)
I hate him. . .
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You hate him, and you will probably hate yourself as will your friend when you really get caught. He is using you and the thrill is always in the chase. Definately not boyfriend material, as he would turn around and cheat on you just as easily. This excitement will be over soon and you will be left just with shame in betraying a friend and letting a guy who is also with another use you both. You love the attention, it is a nice ego boost and he is probably cute and the physical stuff feels good, but you honestly can do much better than this and you know it. Tell him you are done being a plaything, and deserve better. Don't tell the best friend, she will hate you and just take him back. It might not seem fair, but that is usually how it ends. You are not the first girl who has been taken in like this, and I have been on both sides of the story...both suck!
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ok this isn't cool of both of you. if you're friend see's this and doesn't care, thats you're guys' situation and if you're comfortable with that keep it going. but if you're friend knew what he was really doing, i think she would care. you need to tell your friend what her boyfriends doing, this doesnt need to be a crazy serious conversation but she needs to know somehow. and this isnt very responsible of this guy either, if he was really into you're friend i dont think he'd be doing it. I get that you like him, but you know this just isn't right as it is.
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