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My male friend
16/f
K here's the deal. This guy was new to my school sophomore year and we started talking. We ended up getting lockers right next to each other and you know everytime we go to the locker we tell each other hi,how's it going. etc. I've grown to like him a lot but we don't have any classes together and hardly have any time to talk. I'm afraid to drop hints that i like him because i fear rejection....but i was wondering if he felt the same way about me? Sometimes it seems like he's avoiding me or doesn't know what to say, but then i feel like he's annoyed by me....but then there's other times that i really do think he likes me.....i just don't want to look like an idiot! What should i do?
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You are guessing all over the place here and sound confused. You are probably self-conscious and over thinking his every move. The best you can do is be friendly, but not too available all the time at the locker, like you are waiting for him. Make sure he sees you a few times when you are not paying attention to him directly. Make sure he is the one noticing you. Focus away from him as your main crush for a few days and look and talk to other guys in front of him. Just to let him know that you are still a challenge. Guys will take you for granted if there is zero chase involved, but don't be overly inaccessable either or diss him. Don't say hi or the same old boring thing everyday. Think of something to ask him or make a comment he might find interesting. Complement him on something and then walk away. Think of it like starting a fire...you need to fan the flame with a little air, but not blow it out, and you can't smother it either. Good luck!
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