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love triangle.
blah okay =[ i need some serious help. okay so i've had this on and off kind of messed up relationship with one boy (fred). i ended it every time we went out however because he was too afraid to kiss me, would only hold my hand...that kind of thing. i really, really strongly care about this boy. but i just feel like it will never work and he will never treat me as a girlfriend. nobody else does either, so in a way i've lost hope but i haven't lost the dream of it still working. recently, fred's friend (bob) started to like me. he says he likes me a lot. i believe him and so does everybody else. now fred found out and is simply furious that bob likes me because fred still really really likes me too. bob is kind of...relationship obsessed and is kind of creeping me out. i'm just looking to hook up with him and i don't care how shallow that sounds. everybody gets horny sometimes and i haven't gotten with somebody in a long time BECAUSE of fred in the first place. what do i do about fred? i really like him...might love him a tiny teeny bit...its just hard. everything is hard these days becuase i don't think fred will ever get the balls to freaking kiss me. what do i dooo =[
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on and off relation ships are the worse, and it sucks even more when the guy is prude. but chances are fred is not prude, just extremely nervous.
this is what i'd do.
tell bob that you're sorry .. you're interested in some one else, but you can still be friends .. and put him onthe bak burner for right now.
then go to fred, tell him that you think you should try it one last time, and you think that you could make it work. and if he agrees tell him that you care for him much, but you dont like how he wont kiss you. he probably wont take it offensivly. or you could be like "why havent you kissed me yet" in a joking way. and see what he says. if nothing changes with in the first week. you make the first move.
i'm sure he's just too nervous cause he feels like he'll mess up something by kissing you.
and if fred says no thank you, and doesnt take you back then go back to bob and tell him you're sorry that you passed him up, and that you'd like to be friends with him and potentally date, and get to know him better.
best of luck :)
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