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its ABBY, but DONT tell anyone about this


Question Posted Monday November 13 2006, 5:44 pm

i seriously think im depressed.. & im not in the least bit joking.

my grades are dropping. school isnt as important to me as it used to be. i dont matter. no one cares. i need help. i absolutely refuse to tell my parents. who should i talk to ?? i dont want this to get any worse.. but if i tell my parents theyll put me in counseling again.. & then ill get put on drugs.. and i will not take any medicin. who should i talk to ?? what should i do ??
HANNAH HELP ME !!


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disasterxwoah answered Monday November 13 2006, 10:06 pm:
Its a good thing that you are asking for help. It shows you are worried about youself. There are alot of people you can talk to that can help you when you need help. Make sure it's someone you can trust, and someone who understands alot of things.
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You can talk to :
A teacher, a friend parent, an adult, a school consluer, your parents (if you feel comfotable with it), a brother or sister, a friends brother or sister, a family friend, an adult, a doctort, a friend (this might not be the best idea, they arent as helpful as someone who is older).
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I understand what your saying. My grades are dropping and things that were once important to me, just.. seem not as much anymore. You could just be growing up, your bodys changing odd things are happing to yourself, you might just be confused. I'm glad that you are taking this im a searous way. That shows you are worried about yourself, and you would like to get help. You might not want to back to conseling, but it might be the best thing for you, if you are depressed. I'm cant tell you if your depressed, I'm fosure not a doctor, but it sounds like you have problems in your life right now, that you need help working out.
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As much as you hate telling your parents, if anything else fails.. you might have to. When they take you to the counsling center (when and if they do) explain that you don't want medication. That you want to try and work things on your own. You should have some say in your life. Just talk to someone you really trust, and ask them for real help. Seeing a doctor will proablly (spelling?) be the best thing for you. You won't enjoy it, but once you are happy again.. then you will be thinkful that you have people around you that care enough to get you the help you need.
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Hoped I helped some, you can always IM me at [love x woah] or send me another in my inbox... even if youd just like to talk. Good luck.

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