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im just - out of it
ok,here it goes. i move here 2 years ago,and i still have the friends from befor,but its soo hard to make new friends in the school.i've been through friends that i was close with and now i joined a new group this year.its a complete mess!
i dont know how im supposed to talk to anyone,lately im so blank,and i dont even think about anything,i stare off into space remembering my friends from the old town,and i've already tried asking my mom if we ould move back.i dont know how to make friends,start convos,be funny,or even have a personality.
i just really want friends that care about me in this town,and want to do things out of school with me,but how? are there steps? i spend my whole time just wishing i was with my old friends,and wishing i had friends in this new town like that.
i dont know how to loosen up,how?im so sad,and i feel like nothing in the wolrd can make me better.i feel hopeless and wonder why i lost interest in things i used to love.sorry this is long.anything will help/
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Okay well figure out your personality first. What are your intersts. Let's say you like to dance. Get involved with dance and meet some friends. Just approach someone at that dance class and say Hey Do you enjoy dance? Start the conversation small and little by little talk to that friend a bit.
One of the things you don't want to bring up is about your old friends, if you talk about them to much it seems like your more interested in the old friends then who your talking too. I would go to the mall, get some cool new clothes, get a new hairstlyle. That will make you feel better about yourself. When I fist meet someone I try to think of what they like. For example. If I see a girl sitting in a room, holding a little book of drawings, and is sketching. I know I might want to talk about that.
Just start a conversatipm with a simple line "Hi My name's -insert name-.I see you like -insert a subject-. Then ask questions about it, and just don't worry, you have NOTHING to lose. Whenever I am worried about something I think what's the worse that could happen and honestly, the worst that could happen for you is that that person will not like you. Theirs alot of people that have the same intersts as you, so talk to them!
Just remember one more thing, BE YOURSELF! If you need more help check out my column [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
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