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How can I expline with out being harhs
I am sick of a freind of my taken me seroluy. she get so up tights about my feelings and what I am saying. its like she don't care and not getting what I am saying. i am try to open up not try upset anybody. she hase no care in the world. she think i get mad and evrything and I don't. alot of misunderstanding... how can I say i just try tell you what i am feeling these days. i am not mad or upset. i just try open my chest little. but you think it about you all the time.. its not you..
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If you are offending her everytime you open your mouth to express yourself, either she is too sensitive or you are indeed to harsh. We cannot change others, but you can examine your own mind and heart before you speak. Everything we do or say has an impact in the world on those around us, and consequences. If you are able to control your tongue and your feelings in a mature way in order to avoid misunderstanding, than you will grow to be a well adjusted individual who will have an easier way in the world. Next time you want to open your chest and spew out hostility, anger, frustration, hurt, criticism, or anything those around you do not want to end up wearing, then stand in front of a mirror and say it to your reflection. What do you see and feel hearing those words? How do you think others see you when you speak your mind? We all need to examine ourselves and our effect on the world and others from time to time. Life is a journey, and we have to pause from time to time, before we run ahead and miss the point.
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