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How do you know whether or not someone is interested?
Here's what happened, I met this guy online, we talked for a couple days, seemed to click but then again it's online. Anyway, we went on a date, watched Borat, which was really funny, and then hung out, ate, and talked for awhile. Then we scheduled to go out on a second date which we had yesterday. Instead of going out we chilled at my place kissed for the first time and talked and made out. Anyway, between Sunday and wednesday we were really enthusiatic about it and all. We can't really talk on the phone because he's still in the closet. Oh yeah, i'm a senior in high school and he's a freshman in college so the age difference isn't bad at all. Anyway, I just don't really know how to read him I don't know whether or not he likes me... Online and texting he seems to be getting annoyed of me but in person he's really caring and really passionate and sensual. I just don't know whether or not i'm reading into him not being as responsive when I text him as something small that I should overlook. I guess i'm becoming too attached because after all we've only gone on 2 dates... I guess i'm just wondering if someone can help me analyze this situation and tell me whether or not I should just chill, try going on dates with other guys, and not get too attached to this guy. I just figured that if someone were interested they would be just as "clingy" in a sense as I am... I guess it's just something I always see on T.V. *sigh* any help? If you have any more questions to help you better analyze this, feel free to ask. He's never been in a relationship and i've only been in one other which I constitute as not really being a relationship... but that's another story.
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He's not out of the closet yet which will definitly be something that will take time for him to do. That may be why he isn't overly enthused about the attention. Give him some time to sort things out and don't be concerned if he isn't 'clingy'. My bf isn't either .... some ppl are just not like that. Doesn't mean they care for you any less it just means that you are two different ppl who have different ways.
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Give him some time. Since he's still in the closet, it may be awkward for him to communicate with you when he's not with you. It may scare him to think that someone may be able to see or hear what he's saying and figure him out. Just try to be as patient and supportive as you can. It sounds like he's really interested in you. Good luck! :)
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Okay well if he hasnt been in many relationships then he probably isnt a player so just go with it and see what happens oh and have fun
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