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You said that there was a book with ideas to start good intimate conversations with guys, but i dont think i want to buy it. Do you mind giving me a few of the ones that really worked for u? thanks!
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Alright here's the deal. I lost the copy that I had of the book for the second time (yeah...) and I'm throwing a little tantrum about it and refusing to get it again. I would send you the entire thing if I could, but sadly, since I don't have it anymore and am a little low on money at the moment, I can't. Sorry.
Umm, It's been awhile, but I'll tell you what I can remember. The questions that my boyfriend and I liked talking about were mostly the ones about favorites. Not just your favorite food and your favorite color. Even though those are fun too, you can get into things like your favorite birthday, the best present you ever got, the best day you ever had, and things like that. It's easy to be creative with that and you can go on for hours telling stories about your favorite things. Have a question and answer session with him. You ask a question and he'll ask one back. Another good part of the book was questions about the future. What you want to be, how many kids, pets, and all that. What attracts you to the other person was a fun section. Emotionally and physically. Religion is a touchy subject sometimes, but it can bring hours of conversation. Current debates like abortion, death penalty, and gay marriage are also good for conversation. I've found that "would you rather" questions are great too if they're hard. :)
If you can find someone that has one of the books and will let you borrow it, that would be great. Having a book with a list of questions makes it easy to keep the conversation going. You don't have to think up all the questions yourself. ]
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