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My friends think im weird like gay and emo n stuff
okay well my friend took my necklace out of my shirt and it tickled a little and im like stop it tickles and she gave me a 'weird' look and then im like ... just to cover things up to make her not feel that im gay...i made things worse by saying .. see i like pain.. lol i definately would have liked her to hurt me with her nail rather than tickle cause that was annoying.. my friend bianca, she is not huggy like i am. people put their heads on my shoulder and i do the same i tried it with bianca cause i was tired and she asked me if i was gay she was not joking cause she tried to lay it down softly. i am not gay i totally have feelings for guys and none for girls. im not emo but i like the goth style. i dont cut myself but anyways. my friends think im weird sometimes yet they hang out with me and think im cool for the next.....what the heck?! they also think im goth i just like the style but during religious education when they say something about goth like the boys have to mention it they turn around and some people say ..(my name) and smile and laugh and i think its funny but thats the only time when i think it is. well more times but thise whole thing where they think i am cutting myself.. just not right so i try to push myself out there and say i like guys.. but then bianca has to say im guy crazy and i shouldnt like guys so early but man im thirteen! things r so complicated..can someone please sort them out for me?
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First of all, I'm offended by your choice of words. Gay is technically happy in the dictionary. In more loose terms, it's where guys like guys. If a girl likes a girl, she is called a lesbian--not gay.
And the whole "Emo and goth" ting. Stop with the labeling and seperating people by their interests.
Anywhos, when people try to say your goth or emo or whatever, just don't reply them. Don't let them get to you and bother you. If they say that you cut, just lift up your sleeves and show them your flawless arms. Ask them if they saw any emos or goths that wear (pink) or whatever color you're wearing. Just don't let them get to you. Just roll your eyes at them for their immaturity and nothing more. Don't try to argue with them or anything. Just saw them that your arms are clear and saw them that they're being immature. If they see that what they're doing has no effect on you, they have nothing to do to you.
You're 13. It's normal to like guys! I went out with guys when I was 13. Bianca needs a reality check and if she and that other friend can't trust you and take your words for what you say, they're not good friends or friends at all.
Just when you go to school, don't reply to any of the "goth" comments or whatever and show people that your arms are clean. And with Bianca and that other girl, say firmly that you are not bi or les and that you're straight as an arrow. And tell Bianca that it's perfectly normal to like guys at your age and that if she thinks that it's weird to like guys at that age, ask her to re-evaluate herself on HER orientation
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