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My Love life stinks and i dont feel pretty :(
ok. my love life stinks. no guy has ever had a crush on me im the only ones of all my friends who hasnt had a boyfriend. okay. i have to give myself props though because now i am alot better with guys than last year and im also at a new school this year and it was nice to get a fresh start. anyways. guys just dont... i dunno. all the guys are nice to me and they flirt with me and mess with me all the time for fun and im not ugly. its weird. i have gotten so many compliments on how pretty i am this year than anyother year. and i asked my best frined who is the most honest person i know how pretty i am and she gave me an 8.5. and alot of other people do think im pretty. the whole point im getting to with this is because i dont feel pretty. the reason why is because no guy has liked me before and i really would like a boyfriend. i just dont get whats wrong with me. i may think im not pretty but im not ugly. believe me on this. i guess i compare myself to the other girls. the slut girls. and how im not pretty like them.i dont know what to do with guys to not make them like me but to flirt wioth me more and stuff. i kind of go a little overboard with my crush so what can i do about that? i wear makeup and for some reason i feel ugly and dont know what to do. each year i always wish that one guy will like me and we would have a relationship together and i always dream of having a boyfriend to much. is it a possibility why you think i guy doesnt like me. thanks to anyone that helps!!
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First things first--it would really help if you gave us your age but anywhos.
Believe it or not, a lot of the guy friends that I know don't care about the looks. They basically judge you on how you act and your personality. I know that some guys disliked me few years ago because I don't have much self confidence in oral presentations an what not. I was just too shy and quiet. So in the end it all comes down to your personality, how true you are to yourself and others, and how you act in school.
Stop comparing yourself to those slutty girls. All they are are people who put on 5in. of make up just to attract guys that aren't worth much.
You can't get guys to do more or less of something or have their feelings change for you and what not. You need to let nature just take it's course and you can't rush it.
So my advice to you is before you even THINK about guys you need to get these things accomplished
1. Higher your self confidence. Do people like you for how you look or for who you are? Are you friends just friends with you because you look pretty or because they like who you are for you? If people judge you on how you look, that's their problem and they shouldn't even waste your time.
2. Stop with the make up. Just learn to love your skin without all those make up. By the time you're 20--when you should really start wearing make up--you'll have to wear mroe make up to cover all those wrinkles you caused by wearing make up now. Sure, light mascara, eyeliner, and lipgloss wearing is fine but no concealers [sp?] foundations, powder, etc. So NO make up PLEASE.
3. Work on your self image, If you really don't think you're pretty, then try differenct kinds of cloths on or different colors and whatever makes you look good and flatters you, stick those kinds of cloths.
4. Last thing--have yourself just confident in yourself and around other people. Don't feel selfconcious because that's a turn off for most guys.
With the boys:
Don't get too head over heels for boys or make it so obvious. If you have to, play hard to get. Just don't go drooling over one boy and scare him away.
You don't want a guy liking you for the fake you right? You'd rather have a guy that likes you for you. So don't make up an image and just be true to yourself and who you are. Just be yourself around guys and if some guys don't like that, don't worry about it. You don't need to impress them because --yeah, it's not worth it.
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