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my cousin


Question Posted Monday November 6 2006, 5:53 pm

so i jsut found out today
that my cousin who is in 3rd grade
is blind now
because he had a headache and didnt say anything
and now he has a brain tumor
and my aunt and uncle are getting the reults back today
to see if it spread to his spine
and if it did
they cant do anything and he is going to die
and i dont know what to do!
im crying right now talking about it
i dotn want him to die
because i love him so much
and espiaically cause he has a full life ahead of him. hes only like 9 or 10
idk if i should be sad that he can possibly die
or be happy for him cause hes not sufferring and hes in a better place.
help me please!
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advice_expert101 answered Wednesday November 8 2006, 8:52 pm:
its natural for you to be sad, i know i would. well theres nothing really you can do if he is going to die (which is serouisly a horrable thing). if i were you i would just try to spend the most time you can with him and your family. Theres nothing you can really do. maybe try to start some like fun raiser or something for brain tumors. idk. just try your best to be with him and the family.
best of luck*

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Elcee answered Tuesday November 7 2006, 9:24 am:
What an awful thing for you and your family to face. It is never easy knowing that someone you love is suffering or will die. If you can, please talk to your parents and ask them to allow you to speak to a Cancer Care worker or a Macmillan nurse (If you live in England) or the equivalent in America. They will be trained in talking to the relatives of Cancer sufferers and can help you deal with the emotional trauma that you will all go through.

Many people will be affected by your Cousin's suffering and by supporting each other with hugs and kind words, you will get through it.

There is nothing that I can say that will make the next few months any easier, but I want you to know that many people will be sending up prayers for your Cousin.

I wish you peace and good luck in all that you do.

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