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Boys...
So there is this boy that likes me, but i'm not really sure if i like him. i mean he's cute and all, but he's a little too clingy. like whem i'm coming from a class, he knows where my next class is and he'll wait for me. i know it doesn't seem like there's anything wrong with that, but there's more. if i walk past him without noticing, he'll grab my bookbag like i have to say hi to him and hug him everytime i see him. he doesn't grab my bookbag hard or anything, but it gets really annoying...like everyday. and when school's over and i'm going to my bus, he'll wait at the end of the hallway and ask me where i'm going. he asks me that every single day! i just tell him i'm going home as usual, but the questioning persists. everyone says that we should go out...even people i don't know! everyone seems to see it but me. how do i tell him to chill without being too harsh?
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You just got to starting ignore him a bit. I know it seems mean, but it might help him understand you can't always talk to him and you can't always hug him all the time.
If he grabs your bookbag, just keep walking and if he asks you about it later tell him you didn't feel him grab it, or that you had no time to talk. Your schedule's been very busy, so you might not have much time to talk to him between classes and everything.
If he keeps continuning it, though, you've got to say something. It might hurt him, but you can't keep continuing this over and over. And I'm sure he'd want you to be honest with him. Just not.. BRTUALLY honest. Just explain to him that you're sorry, but you don't always have the time to talk to him, so if he could just come and see you to talk or something every few other periods, that'd be alot better. And just let him know you don't like it when he tugs on your bookbag, cause that's basically pulling on your shoulder, and it irritates you. Let him know that you want to hug him and everything, it's just you can't do it all the time and you can't talk to him. You like to have some moments to yourself in school where you don't even want to talk to anybody else.
He might be a little hurt, but if he likes you this much, he'll understand and respect your decision and back off a little.
I hope I helped.
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