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Should I still like this boy or get over him?
Hey!
Ok well I'm a 15 year old female to start with.
I have been in love with this boy I know for over like two years. We went out a couple years ago for about 8 months or so and he broke up with me and we just became really good friends. Well I hang out with him quit a bit but he's kind of mean to me sometimes but like other times we'll cuddle and he'll hold my hand and put his arms around me and kiss me and when he has his arms around me he like touches my chest and stuff which is kinda strange but I don't care because I like him so much! Well not to long ago I found out that he also flirts with a ton of other girls and he tells pratically everyone the stuff we do and he'll like "demonstrate" and my friend told me that he thinks that he's using me and he doesn't really like me which hurt so I had my friend ask him if he was using me or if he likes me and he said that he kind of likes me and if I continue to let him do the stuff he does with me now he said he'll definatley like me..but lately he hasn't talked to me eiether and my friend told him I was sad about that and he was just like oh well.
So do you think I should continue to be in love with him and cuddle with him or should I try and get over him and if so how do I? Because I've tried! And what are some things I could do to make him really like me?
Sorry this is so long! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
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I think he`s looking for a friends-with-benifits relationship. Which is like being friends but doing what boyfriend and girlfriends do. You also don`t always have to be emotionaly attached in one of those relationships. For example: how he doesn`t really have feelings for you. In my opinion I think you should tell him you don`t want to do those things because you feel as if he is trying to use you and you like him too much to let him do things to you that you don`t want to be doing unless your in a relationship. Be careful because then he might try to be in a relationship with you and just get what he wants and then dump you off. Tell him you want to be only friends for now and not do anything that bad, like still kiss and make out or w/e you want. Then when you think he actually and truthfully has feelings for you then see if you guys are ready for the next step "b/f and g/f". Just be careful and if you need anymore help just leave another message in my inbox. Good luck. ♥
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