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okay well ive been w/ my boyfriend for almost 2 months. i really like him and everything but like when i kiss him i think nothing i think why am i not thinking should i be thinking? so my question is should i be like thinking positive? i don't know what i'm thinking these days i feel low and just blank and stressed i guess but at the same time happy..? help...:/ thanks
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Well, kissing isn't so much about thinking as about feeling. And if you're feeling nothing when you are kissing him, perhaps you aren't attracted to him.
It's possible to really like someone, get along terrifically well, and be really happy when you're around them. After all, don't you feel that way about most of your friends?
Still, without that extra 'something,' a relationship may or may not be on the cards. Sometimes things develop with time, while in other scenarios no attraction just equals no attraction.
I guess it's up for you to weigh up what's important to you about a relationship. After all, sex isn't everything. Does humour rate high? Honesty, friendship, safety? Maybe by prioritizing your wants and needs, you'll be able to have a clearer picture of your expectations.
Best of luck.
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