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The Situation Has Changed!


Question Posted Monday October 30 2006, 6:59 pm

Yesterday I asked a question about going out with a guy that likes one of my friends. She told me about 15 mins ago over MSN that she does like him, but she wants to stay myfriend through everything and she thinks all's fair in love and war. But I'd feel like I was betraying her. And then there's the side to me that screams 'You never do anything for yourself! You look out for all your friends, but nobody looks out for you!' but then i tell that vice to shut up and stop being selfish.

Can I actually do this? I think my friends are making plans for us all to go out, and this friend in the triangle I can tell is trying to get us together and being the good friend but i think at the same time she's going to get hurt.


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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 1:17 am:
If you really feel like this is going to hurt your friend, don't be afraid to come out and ask her. Tell her that you really feel that she may be hiding her feelings and that you really need to know that this is ok.

I think you should listen to that side thats screaming because it's probably right. Heres the opportunity to do something for yourself and you might not want to miss out on it. It could be something really good.

-TheTeenGirl

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