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I need to get over her.
I've liked my best friend for 2 years. I accually liked her before I was friends with her and then we became really good friends (I'm a 14 year old guy and she's a 14 year old girl). So anyway she knows that I liked her in the past but she thinks I'm over it. The problem is that I'm not. I liked her for a year and then in the summer we didn't talk everyday like we used to. She started to like me but I was out of state and couldn't see her. When I came back for the new school year, she had a new boyfriend who was older than her. I didn't want her to do anything with him because I would be very jealous. She did do something with him (she went to 3) and her other friend told me. I was very sad but then she told me that she didnt want to do it and that she was pressured so I felt better. The problem is that she has a new boyfriend who is in our grade. But he has gone all the way. My friend thinks it's disgusting to do it at 14 but she goes to alot of house parties and she might drink something and not have good judgement. She's been my best friend for two years and I think I love her but the only time she liked me was at a time where I couldnt see her! I tried to get over her and just try to be friends with her but I can't do it. Everytime I come close to getting over her, I start liking her again! Time can't fix this because I see her everyday and she's my best friend. What should I do.
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I can understand your worry even though she seems to
have a pretty good head on her shoulders. Keep encouraging her to use her head and, if you attend any of those parties keep an eye on what she gets up to while there.
It may take her a little while to realize that the best guy in the world to date is the one who is your friend. Your best friend. These are the guys you want to keep. Don't let it get you down that she is dating other guys right now. You guys are only 14. I know you get sick of hearing that but when she wants to settle down to a long term commitment...you may be THAT guy. If that is true then you may be waiting a while.
In the mean time you shouldn't just sit and wait.
Find a nice girl to go places with until she sees what she has right under her nose. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't get a little jealous.
Be good too her though. Treat her special. Pretty soon she may just see that your pretty special.
Good luck! :)
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