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i'm so incredibly pissed right now its not even funny. i want to teach my mother a lesson! her and her stupid sister too! i want to make them worry about me and make them never speak to me the way they do again. i really hate this. they're always blaming me for my grandmother's heart condition and i don't even do anything. i'm the only person in this family that actually cares about my grandmother because everyone else treats her like shit. in english, we had to write an essay about our hero, and i wrote about her, because she's my hero and i love her more than anyone probably could. so, they should just shut up. what should i do?
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There's obviously a lot of disfunction in your close family. Right now you have to deal with your mother and her sister because you live at home but this won't last forever. Just ignore them, getting revenge won't help at all. It might even make matters worse. Stomach their stupid comments as long as you can and someday you will be on your own and free of their comments. You sound like a good person, don't get revenge.
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I don't know what it is they think you are doing that would stress her out, but if you can think of anything, then let me know. Being mad is okay, as long as you are not destructive with it. When we act out of anger or carry it to long, we mostly end up hurting ourselves and alienating others. Guilt is what they are really trying to put on you, probably to control you somehow. Tell them guilt won't work, because your conscience is clean as far as your grandma is concered. If they continue to blame you, and you know that you are not causing stress, then try to ignore them and not give them any indication that they may be right. If you let them provoke you into doing something out of anger, then they will say, "See you are the problem." So, don't give in to the provocation.
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