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the kiss..
ok well ive liked this guy since around the time school started. then he started going out with my friend and they barely ever talk or do anything. they look uncomfortable around eachother but yesterday after school they kissed. all that keeps playing in my head is him leaning down to kiss her. please tell me what i can do to block that image out of my head and not be so worried that anytime i turn around they will be kissing
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ok.. i know how you feel! My ffriend went out with my crush and it hurt and to tell you the truth seeing them kiss didn't help at all. You might have to give yourself space from them.. do you hang out with them often? Try hanging out with other people get your mind off of them and put it on something better. remember there are a lot more fishes in the ocean.. better ones!! good luck!!
-Bess
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Try this:
Play it in your mind one time without cringing, or tearing up, or even disgust. Play it one time and one time only, and then file it away like you would if you saw it happen in some movie a long time ago. When you see them at school, think of something else...find another memory that you have of your friend and use that to block out the other image.
If they do start making out at every corner, sometime when its just the two of you, suggest that they tone it down...at least in public, and if they are making you uncomfortable, sit her down and tell her just that. You don't have to tell her why, because that could put a strain on your relationship, just tell her that she is uncomfortable. Plain and simple.
If she really cares enough, she'll do her best to take your feelings into consideration.
(Hope this helps! Wanna talk more? Feel free to contact me at either cardenb@countryday.net)
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