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are they sick of me?
well i just made a new set of friends at the end of last year. and then one of my friends started being friends with them over the summer. the 4 of us are kinda a group. the 2 new friends and my friend are now really close and they all kind of just ignore me now and don't bother to talk to me, although i'm with them a lot. i feel if they could choose, they would choose not to be my friend.
what can i do to make myself not feel this way? or
what can i do to make them want to be my friend.. if they don't?
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you're feeling left out, it's probably for a reason. Sit down one day and examine your feelings. Grab a piece of paper and quickly jot down a couple of feelings or reasons, or even some examples of when some action made you feel invisible or left out.
As crazy as it sounds, they might not even realize that they're doing it.
But bringing your feelings to their attention may change everything, and it may not. Perhaps sit them down all at once and tell them how you feel, and give them examples of when and why you felt the way you do.
If they really care, they'll do their best to remedy the situation. If not, then as hard as it is, seperate yourself and find some new friends.
(Hope this helps! Wanna talk more? Feel free to contact me at cardenb@countryday.net)
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