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Friendship & Boyfriend
okay, there is this girl that i'm friends with. she's 15 and i'm 14. she gets really emotional over guys--just keep that in mind. well, the kinky part is that she likes a guy that i like and i like a guy she likes or liked or went out with. It's not on purpose or anything. she's very open about who her crushes are but i'm very secretive--long story behind that.
well, mike asked her to homecoming which she said he ruined and was pissed at him but still sorta like him. well, mike likes me and its obvious and i really want to go out with him but the complications are:
1. I have this habit of covering up my feelings for crushes by acting like I hate them or something sometimes and when Kayla said she was going to homecoming with me, that habit kicked in so she thinks I don't like Mike that much.
2. Since she likes mike, I don't want her to cry or anything like that in school if she hears about us going out.
3. I'm worried about the whole "His idiotic snese when it comes to distinguishing b/w gf and guy friends"
I heard that he was going to ask me out really soon and I frankly don't know what I'm going to do. Should I just tell Kayla that I also like Mike -- if so how do I explain to her my "habit" ? Should I decline Mike or say yes and if I do say yes, what do I do with Kayla? It's all mixed up >.<
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Okay. It's weird how well I relate to this question. I'm just like you, not vocal about who I like, and it gets me into 'trouble' like this as well.
I don't think you should turn him down if you really like him. Let her know before hand that you like him, make sure she hears it from you, not from someone else. Tell her that you don't speak up about crushes as much as her, and thats why she didn't know. If she has a real problem with it, you are going to have to make the decision. But from where I look at it, if she's your real friend, she won't care (unless she has some serious issues with this guy), so if thats not the case, and she still gets really upset, you should probably evaluate your friendship and decide him or her. But, it might not even get to that point. But you do have to tell her.
Also... How can he like you AND your friend. And he asked your friend first, correct? If this is the case, he's probably not worth fighting with your friend over anyways =)
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