Sounds to me that it was mutual. However, (as much as I know you don't want to hear this) you also pushed him over the edge by saying "You can't be in the midd...lets just end it", he really could have been "in the middle" sometimes when it comes to these things its hard not to be indecisive.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.