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Family falling apart
my parents having been like a couple foir the best year. My mom told me once that she was thinking of making him leave. but never went through with it. then she told me again and this time she would alywas get mad at my dad. && im thinking she might acualy get a divorce this time. my mom doesnt have a lot of money and i dont think that we could survive on our own w/o my dad. but i dont want to tell her that. And also i was looking through her cell phone once and i looked at her text messages and there was one that said some "nasty" stuff to someone named mark....not my dad....so i have a feeling shes cheating ??? And of course i dont want to tell her that either. && i just wwant my parents to be more of a couple. Is there anything i can do?
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You can talk to your mom, and you can talk to your dad. Tell them everything that you are afraid of and everything you are feeling. Write it all down at least and give it to them. It is not in your power or your responsibility to fix their adult relationship or keep everything together. You have a right to express yourself fully to your parents and if they don't listen, find a teacher, adult family member, counselor or trusted adult at your church if you go. Don't judge your mom for the message, you don't know the whole story, so don't go down that road. Your parents should not put you in the middle and they don't have to explain themselves in detail, but you do have a right to a secure home, so talk to them about making that happen.
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