There's this really confusing guy... i know im the millionth
Question Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 11:02 am
Hi.I'm Tess, a 10th grader at Phillips Academy. I've had a crush since last year for this guy, but i never paid much attention to it; he was dating one of my dorm-mates and i was in a relationship too(these have both ended). butthree or four weeks ago, we hung out over a long weekend and the connection was really strong. we've been talking a lot since then, flirting and texting in classes. but neither of us are really the type to start something real or be the first to risk it. i dont even know if he's the type to ask someone out at all. i really like this guy, but im getting frustrated and i don't know if i'm pushing it with him. since he's a day student and i board i can't really make an effort to see him without making it *really* obvious that i've gone out of my way. over the past three days he's stopped taking the same effort to go out and engage in conversations with me than he used to. should i just accept the fact that i'll always have a thing for him and then leave it at that? i don't usually chase after guys at all, but i really like him and i'm torn. Sorry for the long question. =/.
It's alright, I get a lot of long ones. I would say get to know him better and see if you can actually hang out more often because if you ever become something, you're going to want to see each other and if that's impossible then it might be a difficult relationship. I think maybe you should make a subtle first move. Just see if he's interested, if not, then just drop it for a while and continue with your friendship you have. Good luck!
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