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lost a friend.
okay, so i HAD a best friend, me and her were friends for almost 4 years she knew everything about me and we were really close. although she was a little fake towards me - such as she dated my ex and would never help me out when i was in a fight with someone she even once used me to get to one of my brothers friends. i always had her back though and let all these things slip by. so this girl who i dont like goes to her and tells her that ive been talking about her behind her back, that did hurt her but it hurt me to, my friend for 4 years cant even trust me? well i guess more then just this one girl told her that i was talking about her, and i must admit i had talked about her on several occasions, but she always ditched me when i needed her the most, and then would expect me to be there for her, i took a lot of crap for and from her and would always clean up after her when she got into trouble. but i had made this friend of mine pretty much my life and didnt realy have too many other friends besides her, and the ones that i did have she was also friends with and turned a lot of them against me. so im trying my hardest to make some new friends, and this weekend i may be hanging out with some new people. i dont really know how to handle this whole situation though, how do i make a good impression on these new people? what should i do while in school? and how should i act around my ex bestfriend? it seems like shes trying to make my life hell. i wish i could go somewheres and start over, a lot of people think im fake and 2 faced now. but in reality i think i had a right to atleast say a few things about her, i mean she laughed at me once for crying and did a lot of things a friend shouldnt do. im in a time in my life when i need a friend the most. what should i do? am i the one at fault?
i sometimes see her away messages and they'll say that shes out with my other EX friends. and i cant help to get a little pissed and miss the times that we had.
ive hung out with some of my new friends at the same places shes been - how should i act?
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i have also had that problem one of my friends said that i sent one of her friends a text that said unbelievable things its amazing how some one can be your best friend but with any little thing true or not will just shut you out not even asking if you said that. i think you should tell your sorry and that you want to be friends (unless you don't want to be friends) if she does not except you apology then there is really nothing you can do...and if she does not except the apology maybe she was not your friend in the first place? try not to talk about people behind there back or in front of them whether they are your friend or not does not matter whether you like them or not some things should be left unsaid only tell your closest friends that you know you can TRUST secrets good luck i hope i helped!
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