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i never thought i would say this but im kinda boring. =/ im not "shy" but im not the loudest one in the room. i do talk and i can be really loud,but sometimes i wish i was more open and talked more. to my close personal friends im fine i can be loud and feel comfortable but when im in school at lunch i never know what to talk about and thats probably why i dont say much! i never know what to talk about when im with my not as close friends.movies and music just seem boring.i wish i was the loudest person the one who wa always talking and stuff but i just end up being "untalkative" maybe im just not comfortable being loud and talking alot with my not as close friends.how can i open up and be the loud person that i know i am inside? and i never know what to talk about!!! HELP.
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just be yourself, and don't care about what others think of you. is there something holding you back from saying what you want to say? don't think, "will everyone think i'm stupid if i say this?" - just say it. =] it will help you not feel so shy about saying things. also, if you start talking to someone, topics will come up. if you start talking about a movie, the conversation will lead into other places. ask people questoins about themseslves - it will get a conversation going and can take the pressure off you for a little bit. as you start talking to people more, you'll make more friends and when you get to know people you'll become comfortable around them and be able to show your true self.
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I used to be the same way, I wouldn't talk to anyone that I knew because if I didn't know you I really couldn't care less if you knew me. Well, this year at the start of my Junior year I have finally learned to just let lose. That is all you need to do, not care what people might say about you, because you know what, those people don't matter. Open up be that loud person you wanna be and don't even think twice about anyone else. All you need to do is what your personality is saying, or in your case screaming. So be loud, have fun and live your life to the fullest, be that person whose inside! LET LOSE!!!
Hope I helped!!
Nik
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