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Shew I Love Him!


Question Posted Tuesday October 17 2006, 7:58 pm

Well Me *&* My Boyfriend Have Been Together 4 Months and I Love Him More Than Anything But Like A Month After We Started Daten He Cheated On Me He Said He Was High. But I Stayed With Him Because He Told Me The Next Day And Was Crien...The Thing That Killed Me The Most Bout IT Was that IT Was One OF His Ex Girlfriends And He Had Just Come From My House About 2 Hours Earlier.

Its Been About Two Months Since This Happend But It Kills Me Now Worse Than Ever Its Like I Cant Trust Him Since He Did It He Gives Me No Reason Not To Trust Him Besides That But Like Im Afraid
He'll Do It Agian. Every1 Says Im Crazy For Stayin Wit Him After That But I Love Him! But Its Gettin To Me More And More Day By Day! What Do It Do? ;_;


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queenhearts answered Tuesday October 17 2006, 11:50 pm:
Okay, try to put it in your past.
If you're going to make this relationship work you need to forget about it. Has he been getting high lately? Going to parties? If you are not going or doing those things with him, then make sure you have a friend that could tag again and keep an eye on him.
I know it sounds kinda mean. .. but he broke the trust by cheating.

Okay, did he tell you he cheated or did someone else did?

Because if he did.. then you know he's trying to be honest and trying to make the relationship work.
But if you found out the hard way, then he needs to start from the beginning with trust. And if he cheats again, I suggest you let him go. You don't deserve that.. but since he was "high", it's more of a taking a risk.

You can either build from your relationship or let it go.


It's your choice.

But if you want this to work, you need to be happy and try to put it aside.

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xostarbrightbaby answered Tuesday October 17 2006, 11:47 pm:
First try talking to him about it. Sometimes people deserve second chances and he should prove it if he wants it. Tell him to shape up too, tell him to not do drugs because it bothers you and any other things. Hope things work out. ♥

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