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so my ex and i broke up the end of august and well we still loved each other after we broke up.We were each others first loves.And well the problem was that we lived too far away from each other so that was a huge factor in our relationship,but my problem is that he said he loved me and still had feelings for me after we were done and then around the end of september he tells me he likes his best friend,and they go out a week later which kind of upsets me because 2 weeks before he texted me and told me he missed me and i thought about me all day so it hurt me.I mean isnt that kinda soon? he said i still mean alot to him as much as his best friend and that ill always be special to him and he still has feelings for me just not as much.And like im trying to move on too but im not completely over him and its hard because i have this great guy who wants to have a relationship with me and i mean i like him but im not completely over my ex and i dont think i ever will and i hate how it effects me like im comparing other guys to my ex.And i just dont understand how my ex has been going out with his best friend for like 2 weeks already i mean if he still loved me he wouldnt be like with someone that fast you know? sorry this was really long..so what do you guys think about all this ?
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Personally?
As a guy, if my girlfriend broke up with me, and I found out that some other girl was starting to like me..
I'd probably go to her instantly.
Why?
My girlfriend is my first love as well, and having that, and then suddenly im not able to hold her, to kiss her, to tell her I love her, i'd feel naked..
I'd need somebody to do that with, wether I had genuine feelings or not for that person, i'd need somebody to be there for me. I wouldn't be able to stand being alone, knowing that what i've had for so long has dissapeared..
I think, your boyfriend is just as effected by the breakup as you are, it's just that he's expressing it in a totally different way.
By him dating his best friend, he chose the person he was closest with so maybe, just maybe being with his best friend would almost imitate the things that you and him had...
Talk to him about it, even though it's hard, it usually always helps...
I wish you luck. =)
Tyler~
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