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my Parents why dont they understand
i really love my boyfriend and i know we will last were really in love but my parents always put me down saying im ugly, or he's the only guy i could ever get. well me and him communicate through note about what we like or dont like about each other or something we do. and today my dad found a note where he wrote to me what he likes that i do when we have partial intercourse and got all pissed and my mom says he's disrespecting me,Is it disrespectfull? and how can i make my parents see let alone try to exsplain to them how much i love him?
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that is extremly depressing. but i understand kind of what your parents are going through when they foudn the note. your are there kid and it is going ot be hard for them to let you go. as for putting you down i think that you should talk to your parents and tell them that you dont like it and that it makes you feel bad. tell tehm that you really like (dont say love it might change everyhing in a bad way for them) this guy and you just want to be able to occasionaly see him because what i am getting form this is you dont get to see him or talk on the phone to him that much. so let them know you think that you are ready to be in a relationship and ask if he can comeover so they can meet him if they havent already. so that they can be invlolved parents like it when they can be involoved. so just try again to talk to them and see waht tehy say.
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Of course your father got all pissed about it, you are his little girl and no-one will ever be good enough for you. When they put you down perhaps they are unconciously trying to make you stay dependant on them because they don't want to let you go. That is not a good course of action because it will make you fight them even harder.
Depending upon how old you are, and I assume you are a young teenager, having partial intercourse is not a good idea. You say you will be together always but we can't predict the future, we can only hope our wishes will come true.
Please tell your parents you understand their worries and concerns, but they must allow you to live your life for you. However, do tell them that you have taken on board what they say but will not allow yourself to be turned against your guy. Try to abstain from any sexual activity until you are older and then make sure you protect yourself from pregnancy and any infections by taking the pill and using a condom every time you have sex.
I hope that everything works out as you want it too and wish you all the best for the future.
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