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Ah. About an ex.
I was with this guy for over a year. We broke up a couple of times. He always did it though except for the last time (He liked some other girl, still liked me but he only went out with me to make me happy .. so I ended it)
So months pasted, his crush is gone.. and he likes me.
And about a week ago, he said we would get back together. So it's like okay...
We both have a friend that we talk to. He told her, that "He was going to the next game and said not to tell ME. Because he wants ME to stop liking him." kinda thing.
He always tells her all of that stuff and he acts all nice to me. In the past, he has lied to me (i didnt know because i was stupid to believe him) so.. he's just doing this to me.
So.. I realized that I deserve someone better. I only liked him because the first time we went out. He was really nice and funny. But when I think of him now, it's too much drama and emotions wasted on him.
So we are really close. He's one of the people I talk to everyday. (We don't go to the same school)
My question is:
How could I get over him?
I obviously dont like him as much as before.
But how do I go about telling him or showing him this?
He has hurt me so much.. that I want to hurt him too. (I know it's childish but it makes me so angry that he keeps doing this to me)
I'm not sure if I should end our friendship by just avoiding him, not talking to him, or anything for a long time.. Just so I wont "Get over him" and forget about him.
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Homegirl, it sounds like you let him do this to you. There comes a time in every girl's life when she has to grow a backbone and move on-this is it! You deserve better.
I'll bet if he sees that you have forgoten about him and moved on to other-much better projects, he will have regrets of the way he's treated you.
It's typical Human Nature: WE WANT WHAT WE CAN"T HAVE AND UNDERAPPRECIATE WHAT WE DO HAVE
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