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Don vs Lenny
You probably wouldn't remember the question I asked you before, but I have a boyfriend and my ex that broke up with me called etc... Well the situation is, I've broken up with current boyfriend (Lenny) for reasons that have nothing to do with Don (ex). Don called me yesterday and asked me to come over, and without thinking, I did. At the time I was still with Lenny, but things were going downhill. I knew I shouldn't have stayed at Don's house long, because before I knew it, he was telling me that he missed me and he feels so dumb for losing me and he wants me back etc. So we talked about it, and I ended up breaking up with Lenny (for reasons excluding Don) and Don wants to try to make things work between me and him. I don't know what to do about Lenny though, he wants me back and would do anything, but I'm not as crazy about him as he is about me, I'm crazy about Don and I haven't lost feelings for him. Any kind of advice on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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Well I know this is going to sound corny, but follow your heart. It sounds to me like you'd be happiest with Don and you have the strongest feelings for him. I know you don't want to hurt Lenny and he likes you alot and everything, but that doesn't mean you should be unhappy just to make someone else happy. You should come first.
Just talk to Lenny and be honest with him. Let him know that some things went wrong in the relationship and it just couldn't continue and you're really sorry. And you know he wants to try and work it out, but over the time of being apart, you've sort of met someone else. It's best just to be honest with him, cause he'll find out everything sooner or later, and that'll only upset him more in the end.
So I say if Don makes you happy and you have these strong feelings for him, then do and stick with what makes you happy.
I hope I helped.
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