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Love going on b/w my friends
Okay, so I have a lot of friends who are homo or bisexual. A,B,C are gay D,E are bi and F is lesbian...but C doesn't really matter right now.
A who is in my grade likes B who is in a grade above us. Well, A thinks B is cute and the thing is that creeps me out. It's not the guy on guy thing it's just the friendon friend thing. A likes to get into guys pants and A might persue that with B and that would be just BLEH. D and E went out and broke up and E talked a lot of crap about D whent they broke up. Now E and D BOTH complain about one another at me and it's getting really annoying. E still ilkes D but thinks D hates her. D doesn't care and is HORRIBLE at keeping relationships. E wants to ask D out agian but every one of her friends hate E..including me. Then there is F whom I dislike and she likes D and D leads her on and F takes it seriously and that just grosses me out sinc\e they're best friends, D is being slutty, and F is following..and F has bAD hygene problems.
So what should I do wiht A and B? B doens't know any of A's thoughts. A thinks B is cute and wants to get in his pants. Both are my friends. And D and E...E thinks I'm not her friend for not giving her D's email address. And E wants to go back out with D who isn't ready to come out of the closet yet. And E has the biggest mouth. How can I keep D and E seperated?? I don't want D going through all the crap she had toput through last year! And F...goodness. What shall I do with her?!
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ok..... F would want to get with E because E is the gir. D is the guy. ya....
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well that is very interesting, and also very confusing. I think that as their friend you have to be supportive of all of their choices.
It is okay for your friends to like each other, you just have to accept it. A can make her own decisions as far as dating and "getting into guys pants" As far as D and E, you should let them sort out their relationship all by them self. Especailly seeing as they have already dated and broken up. Just let them choose their own paths. If E asks for D email address, give it to her. she probably just wants to talk. And you shouldnt be the one to stop that unless D specifically asks you not to give it to her. and for F, if she likes D she likes d whatever, just let her be that way. you cant stop the way your friends are going to act, you can have your own opinions, but you cant judge them, they are free to do what ever they want to. Just be nice and let them make their decisions, good or bad. I know that sounds like it doesnt really make sence, but you have to realize that they are never going to learn if they dont try things out. and then eventually they will get hurt and realize that they cant do that. They will learn whatever they learn, buy conequeneces beheld apon them. It is your job as the friend to be there when they need a sholder to cry on, but not to be the one to do everything for them, or they will never learn right? Good luck, I hope I helped alittle bit.
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