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what's wrong with me?!


Question Posted Saturday October 7 2006, 12:07 am

I'm going to be 17 in a couple of months.-yet, I've never had a boyfriend, kiss, etc. this is DEPRESSING. and i don't mean to sound conceited..but why are there ..*not as pretty* girls that get alllll the guys?! whhy? i mean, this totally hurts my self esteem-I have like NONE. and i keep it all boiled up inside of me because i don't know who to tell it to because it's embaressing..:(

my other question--well, i like this guy..and it's weird because even when i'm not looking, i can sense when he's near me..and so i turn around. isn't that SO weird? and it's soo weird how like he stands out of everyone..like i can spot him in a crowd? why is that? sorry if my questions are retarded. :\


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xkellxx answered Sunday October 8 2006, 11:36 pm:
Well, I'm 14 and I, also, have never had a boyfriend or anything. Every day I like put myself down about it, but I'm starting to realize that just because my friends have boyfriends, it doesn't mean I have to. My point is that you shouldn't care. I know that's really hard to do but enjoy life as it is. You'll be going off to college (hopefully) in a year or two? When the right person comes, you'll know it and be glad you waited.

I'm not really sure how to answer your second question, but I think you can always find him becuase your always thinking about him.

Hope I helped.

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LiliaBrunette answered Saturday October 7 2006, 3:12 pm:
i'm 14 and have NEVER dated. i want to wait for the right person. and i don't want to get stressed. don't try to date just to get your first kiss. your first kiss will be just like an ordinary kiss then!


good luck

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KaTiE_LyNn answered Saturday October 7 2006, 11:44 am:
First of all, looks do not matter when it comes to dating. At least, it shouldn't. You shouldn't let yourself feel low, because you haven't dated anyone. The right guy will come along, if you wait patiently. I personally don't date because I don't want to. Trust me, it's so much easier to not deal with the stresses of having relationships. Also, you definitely shouldn't date just to get kissed. Imagine how amazing your first kiss will be. Embrace it. I wish I hadn't given mine up, and I wish I had never dated before. Think positive. Wait for the right guy.

It isn't weird that you can feel the boy's presence. Everyone has a dinstinct feeling. Also, when you like someone, you can pick them out of a crowd easily. Trust me, it isn't that rare.

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