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well their this boy and we went out for like 3 months and in that 3 months he told me he loved me and then i realized that he meant it and that i loved him too! well their was rumors going around about him cheating on me and i believed but in my mind i knew it wasnt true i just didnt want to look stupid if it was! so i decided to get him back by kissing someone n front of his friends so that they will tell him and he would get mad! well that happened and he really got mad and broke up with me i was hurt but at that time i still kinda believed the stories! so we didnt talk 4 a while but we hung out at the same place! i knew he still liked me and he said sorry 4 the rumors and i said sorry 4 listening to them well we started to go back out but he wasnt the same as the first time! we finally had sex the second time we went out but after that we didnt talk that much! i just realized i still loved him and i think he may still love but even thought we havent talked in a while but i miss how he use to be and i just wanna kno wat should i do? i tried moving on but i keep realizing i love him plz tell me wat i should do i need help really bad!!!!!!!!
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If you really like him enough, message him and try starting up conversation again. Let him know you miss him, and just let him know of your feelings and that you still care for him, and see where it takes off from there and see how he feels about you.
If he does feel the same, try and give it another shot and you both'll really need to work hard at it to make it work well. I can understand why it might not be the same as it used to be, whenever rumors or some sort of bad situation happens, it's usually awkward for couples to just continue right where they left of knowing what happened and what was said and everything. And he just might be afraid to be like that again, because he might be worried once that happens, rumors or something will start up again, and you two will just go right back to where you guys started again. So if you guys were to both work very hard at your relationship and just start fresh and show eachother just how much you really love eachother, you guys can work it out.
But if he doesn't feel the same, I would try your best to move on to another guy. I know you said you've already tried, but you can still keep him around and love him just as much as friend, though. It'd be better to have him in your life as a friend, then nothing at all, right? I remember when a guy I really really liked broke up with me, I was crushed for months and it was so incredibly hard to get over him, but over time I just focused on myself, my friends, and MY life, and then he started leaving my mind slowly each and everyday, until eventually I didn't like him anymore like that, and we just remained good friends. So maybe if he doesn't feel the same, and you two were to remain friends, it could possibly work out good in two ways. 1) He can either remain your friend and you still have that great guy in your life, or 2) He is your great guy & friend in your life, and later realizes again how much he loves you and wants to continue a relationship with you.
So just message him or walk up to him sometime and initiate in conversation and let him know you really miss him and miss talking to him and the way everything used to be, and just let him know of your feelings and like I said, where it takes off from there.
I hope I helped.
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