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I like this kid named Justin a lot and I confronted him about it and he told me..
that a relationship will be to difficult his senior year and he honestly likes me and that he wants to get to know me better and that we will become really good friends and then see what happens?
i really like him and i told him im fine with the friends thing and i understand where hes coming from. and i doo but i just wish me and him could be more. And i dont know what to do anymore, if weather or not i should try and move on and ugh i just dont know :[ help pleaseE?
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It's always good to have really good friends.
Relationships that are more than that are always stronger and saner when they are based on a good friendship.
Sounds like he's saying "slow down a little" which is a lot better than "stop". Sometimes guys are a little (or a lot) slower in the relationship department than girls are, especially if they're busy with something and/or less than 20 years old.
Him focusing on school and wanting to do a good job with that is a good thing in the long run. Support and encourage him to do that, and be the kind of friend who helps him, not distracts him from his goals and career plans.
Also refocus yourself if you start to get so involved in thinking about him that you neglect your own goals and career options.
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Well, do that. Be his friend, and then just see wherever it takes you and see if it can possbily develop into something more in the near future.
BUT. If another guy comes along and he asks you out, don't pass him by just because you're "waiting" to see if this guy wants you, because ( I'm just being realistic ) he might not ever want to become more than that, and waiting all that time for nothing then would be pointless. So take chances with other guys too, have fun, and then who knows? Maybe if another guy does come along, you'll like him a thousand times more than you like this guy.
But for now, while there's no guys around, just hang out with him, be there for him, laugh with him, and just have a great time hanging out with him, and sooner or later he'll realize what he missed all that time and if he doesn't like you anymore than a friend, it's his loss and someone else's gain.
I hope I helped.
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