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is he trying to use me?


Question Posted Thursday October 5 2006, 8:46 pm

okay.im a freshmen. and my friend is a sophmore. we've known eachother for a few years. and he never really seemed too boyfriend materialish to me. i mean like.idk. he can be really nicee and stuff. but he always wants to do shit. and i know every guy kinda has that in them. but its like. all the time. and it seems like thats all he wants. and i never give in most of the time because it just seems weird to me. and sometimes he'll talk to me on AIM non stop. other times. he wont say a word and if i start a convo wtih him. its like. hey.whatsup.nmu?and thats it.

help. i really donno whats going on here.if he likes me or if its all being a set up.

please. tell me the truth.nothhingg stupid like "everything will turn out fine"


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MelLeDisko answered Friday October 6 2006, 12:22 am:
I would talk to him about it, first of all. Ask him if he likes you or not, because to you it just seems like he's using you to get what he wants from you, and other times he's always talking to you and whatnot. Since you didn't say boyfriend, and jsut friend, I'm assuming you guys are friends with benefits, which I would NOT want to do at all, even if he wants to. Friends with benefits always creates bad situations and drama and especially if one likes the other and the other doesn't feel the same. As you can tell, cause you're alreayd having a situation. Just let him know of your feelings though, adn ask him what's going on. You guys are friends ; you should be able to talk about stuff and understand. But I seriously would suggest not continuing a friends with benefits thing cause you're probably only making him want more and more, and that can possibly ruin the friendship even more. I hope I helped.

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