I'm going to college with my boyfriend soon.The on campus housing is a house with four bedrooms[one for each student] a kitchen,den and two bathrooms. Is it wrong of me to want a different house from him?I mean I love him, but I don't think we are ready for that..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? 9dayz answered Thursday October 5 2006, 3:29 pm: well, there is no problem at all if you want a separate house! but please becareful, you must keep his feelings on you. talk to him nicely the reason of your decision. i think he will let you had your choice. if not, you should think again about your relation, since he doesn't respect your choice!. be with another 3 girl in a house is better. usually you will have a great friendship with your roomies from the same gender.
duudee_advicer answered Thursday October 5 2006, 7:20 am: No, its not wrong at all.
I know from personal experience that
I can't handle living with my close friends for much more then a few days. You're just feeling nervous, and you might actually be saving the relationship.
If you two did get a room together, fights and bickering might occur, leading to bigger problems.
I suggest getting a house with some girlfriends for the first semester or year. Then next year, possibly look into sharing a house if you two are still together.
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