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help!!! with friends
this is a long on so hold tight, i have a friends lets call her crystal. she and i have been best friends with eachother since the fourth grade. we also have annother friend i geuss we could call her tonya. she has been all over crystal and i's case for so long and now it's led to fighting with eachother everyday. i rele wanto be friends with tonya but she always gets in the way. she is too insensitive and she ignores every issue that comes along. what should i do???
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Well, I sort of had a problem like this around a month ago. I tried being friends with this girl who hangs around with my friends sometimes, but she never really tried to become my friend and sort of ignored everything I would say and just talked to my friends and so, I just backed off from her.
Whenever me and my friends would hang out, I would just invite us and not her and whenever my friends wanted to hang out with her, they could on their own time. That way there's no awkwardness and no fighting. Crystal just has to understand that you've tried to get along with her, it's just not working out and you don't have to be friends with all her friends, just like she doesn't have to with yours.
So just hang out with Crystal whenever you can, and Tonya and her can hang out whenever they want to so that way everyone's fine and they get to be friends with whoever they want to be friends with.
You could also try giving it one last chance with Tonya and talk to her about it. Ask her why doesn't she want to be friends with you, or at least make an effort to? You think it'd be alot of fun if you, her and Crystal all hung out together and all the fighting and drama is becoming really stupid and you just want everybody to get along. If Tonya doesn't want to talk about it or try and resolve it, then she's immature and like I said, just back off of her and just leave it alone. You tried.
I hope I helped.
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