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Okay...so people always talk about mixed signals and all that...
How do you send them on purpose??
Don't tell me not to, just tell me how to do it. I've always been really straightforward and I wanna play a little game with someone...I have to know how to send mixed signals.
I'm a girl, btw.
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As a guy, let me say that whenever I get mixed signals, it makes me think one or more of these thoughts:
1. I am either being played, or I am a joke to someone.
2. This person is a player, and flirts with anyone who has a heartbeat whether she likes them or not.
3. My time is better spent with someone who doesn't...play...games.
4. This woman doesn't know whether to flirt or not, and my time is better spent somewhere else rather than responding to 'mixed signals' that might turn out to be a bust. That, or leaving that woman alone until she gets herself straightened out.
Being a guy I look at this really simply. If a woman likes me, she will flirt. There is no mixed signals. If she doesn't like me, why would she flirt? If a woman flirts, and then when I flirt back I get the cold shoulder...well, that isn't someone I want to waste time and effort on.
Unless the guy KNOWS it is a game, and is open to participating (most men wouldn't), then dont do it. You will be taking an awful chance playing with someone like this, and I myself wouldn't put up with it. Unless, of course, its understood in a relationship as being JUST a game.
I don't know where so many women get their ideas about flirting (this isn't directed at you, but this is in general). I've known women that think its ok to flirt with men whether they are interested or not, giving men all the wrong impressions (They then ask 'why are all these guys trying to date me?'). I've known women who don't know how to flirt, which leads to some sad cases. And then there is this, which just confuses men generally...and many men, when confused, go looking for someone who is more straightforward.
If you like this guy, don't play games. Seriously.
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If you really want this person, don't do this it.
But mixed signals?
Ask about their game/play all week and tell him you'll make it and then don't show up and forget to ask them about it entirely.
Be really chatty in person and tell him to call you. Then, when he does, be completely silent except for, "yeah?" "No way!" "You're kidding". Under no circumstances should you describe anything relevant to life or interesting.
Make eye contact and smile at him during class, but make sure when you see him in the halls you keep conversation to a minimum and claim to have to get to class quickly.
Invite him, along with many other people, over to you house and talk to everyone else but him. Then serve him punch and pie.
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lol,okay,first of all i have to warn you that guys hate mixed signals,as much as girls do.but here are a few that i really hate(and you could use)
1)make eye contact a LOT, then maybe the next day act as if he was a ghost or nothing.Just drift by him without looking at him, or keep your face down on the floor when walking past him, it's extremely fustrating.
2)Sit next to him during lunch and chat happily or say hi when you sit down, do this for a few weeks, then suddenly sit at the same table but on the furthest corner, and turn your body away from him( body signal) and just eat while reading a magazine or something.
3)Text him a lot,wish him goodnight for a few days then off your phone for the next few weeks,totally confusing.
4)Ask him out for a date,then secretly bring your whole group of friends,he will be surprised cause he will think it's a date when you brought all your friends as if it was a party or something.
5)when he says " we should see each other more often", look back at him with a blur look and go " huh?"
That's about it,hope i helped/
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