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Question Posted Tuesday October 3 2006, 10:05 pm

Actually, I Was Typing Really Fast And Wasn't Sure What I Put I'm 14 Going On 15, He Treats Me Really Good, And I'm Mature For My Agee.. I Told Him That I'm Still A Virgin And Not Willing 2 Do A whole Lot, And He Respects That.. And The Whole Thingg With Him Flirtting With Shantii Was A Mis- Understandingg. He Doesn't Control Me I've Turned Him Down PLENTY Of Timeess.. The Whole Breakup Every Week Is Just A Part Of The Gamee We Playy.. I Wouldn't Askk.. && I Know You're Prolly Either Thinking She's A Cherry Or She's A Slut! I Know Kids Younger Than Me That Have Already Had Sex! And I Just Now Received My First Kiss! Yeahh.. I Talk Dirtyy To Himm And He Talkks Dirtyy To Me.. But It's Justa Part Of Being A Teenager Nowadays.. The Whole Empty Dark Alley Thingg.. Not Exactly Truee.. Cause Skyler Was Watchingg Makingg Sure He Didn't Kidnap Me Lol.. + Like All My Friends Knew Him In Reall Lifee.. So I Didn't Really Care.. I'm Not Intrested In Havingg Sexx.. I Was Molested As A Child.. And This Sounds Kinda Weird But Ever Since That Happened I've Been Afraid Of Doing Anythingg Sexual Because Idkk.. But My Computer Is Aboutt To Diee..

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dia answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 5:29 pm:
ok, as long as you know what you're doing, and you dont get yourelf into a stupid situation.

dont do anything you dont want to

im sorry to hear about your childhood... and your reaction to sexual activity is totally normal.
please don't take offence, but are you stil afected by it today,and if you are, have you considered councelling? do your family know, because this shouldnt be hidden from your family.

take it as slowly as you want, and if this guy cares for you, tell him, and he will understand. if you have done so already then thats great :D

take care, i hope all goes well.
alex

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