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what to do ?
ok, well. my boyfriend broke up with me on thursday, because i supposivly hate all of his friends. i only hated one of his friends bythe way. and they weren't even that close. ok well anyways, on saturday he asked my friend lexi out. Lexi said yes. i was so pissed off. i was crying my eyes out and she didn't even care. i called her a whore. so that made my ex hate me cause he cares about her a wicked lot i guess ? but uhm, now me and lexi are friends cause i was like screw it he's a guy you can have him. ya know being the better person and all? but anyways. i still can't get over the fact she did this to me. not to mention that she made out with him the first day they started going out. gosh whorewhorewhore. geh, but i still want to be my ex's friend. i always ask him if he hates me and he says idk cause you made fun of lexi. but if me and lexi can get over this don't you think he should be over it by now ?
i don't know, i need help. :/
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First of all, I don't think Lexi is a good friend in the first place. If she was your true friend, she would have said 'no' to your ex when he asked her out. True friends don't go out with their friends' ex's, especially if they just broke up. That isn't a great thing to do. So if you're mad at her, you have all the right in the world to be mad at her. That was a very wrong thing of her to do.
As for your ex, if you really want to be friends with him I suggest talking to him about it. Just explain to him that you know you guys aren't going to get back together, but you didn't want to lose the friendship you guys had. Tell him that you really wish you guys could be friends again. And it's silly to be hating one another just because you called Lexi a name. Of course you were going to be mad. He did dump you and than went out with another girl. Ask him if he can forget you about calling her a name and see if you can be friends again, than go from there.
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don't you think you should be mad at him?? you guys dated & she's not your true friend if she did that to you. don't think about it & definately don't try splitting them up. if i were you, i'd ignore both of them. obviously if they make out the first day, they don't seem that serious about each other. the best thing to do would probably be dating around. test the waters basically. hang out with guys, become friends, etc. that way you can get your mind off of it. ask your other friends to help you out. maybe you guys can go somewhere & do something.
-hope that helped!♥
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