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I love him..but when do I tell him?!
Alright so I'm dating this guy for about a month. I really really care for him and he's so amazing to be around. I don't know whether I love him or not...but I certainly feel like I do. I don't want to say anything, though, because I don't want to scare him away. I was just wondering what period of time do you think should elapse in a relationship before you tell the person that you love them? What's the "norm"?
thanks.
E.M.
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There really is no norm in a relationship as every one is different.
For example my last boyfriend took 4 months to tell me and my recent one has only been two weeks.
I cannot tell you now is the time to say those three scary words!
The thing is here is to look for signs that he loves you too. The way he acts or speaks around you can be clues, especially if he speaks about having a future with you, or wants you to meet his parents etc.
From the way you describe him i would say that you are certinaly falling for him but you dont really give me a lot of details to go from, have you ever been in love before? Do you know how it really feels to be in love?
As i said there is no norm, you basically just have to wing it. Sorry i really cant say much more but dont worry about scaring him away, if he likes you as much as you like him it wont be long before he says those three words to you.
Good luck hun and please let me know if this has helped in any way xxx
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